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Men...we're the new women

DateAug 29, 2007
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I just saw a commerical for a new ABC show called "Big Shots" and one of the guys on the show made a profound statement.

Men...we're the new women

Unfortunately, I have no context for the quotation nor do I know what was meant by the statement.  Yet I do think that we have swung a pendulum hard to one side in our culture.  Some love to assume that we still live in a world where boys are taught that "real men don't cry."  We are hardly living in that world any longer.  We live in a society where boy behavior is medicated, the height of masculinity is being "real" enough to whimper with your friends and passivity reigns in the chests of many men.  

I love the word's of a Father to a son as he is about to pass away:

1 When David's time to die drew near, he commanded Solomon his son, saying, “I am about to go the way of all the earth. Be strong, and show yourself a man, and keep the charge of the Lord your God, walking in his ways and keeping his statutes, his commandments, his rules, and his testimonies, as it is written in the Law of Moses, that you may prosper in all that you do and wherever you turn, that the Lord may establish his word that he spoke concerning me, saying, ‘If your sons pay close attention to their way, to walk before me in faithfulness with all their heart and with all their soul, you shall not lack a man on the throne of Israel.’ 1 Kings 2:1-4

On a positive note - if you are a husband or a father - take a moment and read this

Comments

It is impermissible for a man to cry in public, except on the occasion of the death of his dog, or even someone slightly less faithful (wife and children, for example).

BTW, Reid, your permalink template does not include the blog header, so there is no way to get to the main page from a permalink w/o editing the address bar. Real men demand hyperlinks.

Agreed with one revision...a man can cry at the birth of his children, only if he just drill sargent coached his wife through the pushing stage. Maybe if the Cubs win a world series Chicago men can cry. But I might be a wuss for allowing the latter.

Uh...does the "Home" button on the top right of every page not work for you!!?

No "Home" button appears for me in Firefox 2.0.0.6.

I've been meaning to tell you that I think your outfit today is wonderful. Also, nice shoes.

:-)

Vastine - I have to punch you for that!

John - Home button is on the top right of the page - on the image in white. Do you have images off? Maybe I should change the template for no images people...

Where is it that you wanted a link?

I have images turned on. Firefox doesn't appear to render the entire graphic at the top of the blog. I am not sure whether that is a css issue or something else. I am too lazy to look at the code :-)

The link you described appears in IE 7.0.

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